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Take Full Liability
February 9th, 2010 by admin
No matter what you do, take responsibility for the lack of truthfulness and honesty within yourself that created the situation. Your emotional lover may have received some lasting damage by being the shoulder to cry on without any of the other elements that come with a healthy relationship. Don’t beat yourself up or allow guilt to overcome you, but use this opportunity for self reflection and growth.
After you have made your decision, note down what you have found out. Whatever it is you see in your emotional affairs, probably would be less and less apparent to you the better you really get to know them. Whatever you think you see in them, is probably something that you have created them to be. Just like the kids of divorced parents who live with one and idolize the one who isn’t around as much, you have most likely only seen in this person what you want to see in them.